Maa Baap Ke Huqooq
Assalamualaikum Mere Doston is post mein main aapko bataya hun ke Maa Baap Ke Huqooq ke Baare mein.
Toh lihaza aapse guzarish hai aap is post ko Dhyan se padhen or Aage bhi share zarur Karen. Insha Allah aapko Bohat fayda hoga.
Jannat Ka Saathi:
Hazrat e syedna Moosa A.s ne Allah pak ki bargaah mein arz ki ke mujhe mera jannat ka saathi dikha day.Allah pak ne farmaya: Falan shehar ka qasai tumhara jannat ka saathi hai. Hazrat moose salam is qasai se milnay puhanche to is ne aap salam dawat ki. Jab khanay ke liye baithy to Qasai ne aik barri si tokri apne paas rakh li.
Aik sahabi Razi allah عنْہ ne nabi kareem S.A.W.S ki bargaah mein arz ki : aik rastay mein aisay garam pathar thay ke agar gosht ka tukda unn par dala jata to kabaab hojata! mein apni maa ko gardan par sawaar karkay chay mil tak le gaya hon, kya mein maa ke haqooq se farigh hogaya hon?
Do niwalay tokri mein dalta aur aik niwala khud khata. Itnay mein darwazay par dastak hui. Qasai bahar gaya, hazrat moose salam ne tokri mein nazar ki to kya dekhte hain ke tokri mein boorhay mard o aurat hain jaisay hi un ki nazar hazrat moose salam par pari, un ke honton par muskurahat phail gayi phir un buzurgon ne aap salam ki risalat ki gawahi di aur asi waqt intqaal kargaye.
Qasai jab wapas aaya to apne faut shuda walidain ko dekh kar sara maamla samajh gaya aur hazrat moose salam ka haath choomtay hue kehnay laga : mujhe lagta hai ke aap Allah pak ke nabi hazrat moose salam hain? farmaya haan tumhe kaisay andaza sun-hwa? kehnay laga ke mere walidain roz yeh dua karte thay:
Qasai jab wapas aaya to apne faut shuda walidain ko dekh kar sara maamla samajh gaya aur hazrat moose salam ka haath choomtay hue kehnay laga : mujhe lagta hai ke aap Allah pak ke nabi hazrat moose salam hain? farmaya haan tumhe kaisay andaza sun-hwa? kehnay laga ke mere walidain roz yeh dua karte thay:
Ae Allah pak hamein hazrat moose salam ka deedar karte hue mout dena. un ke achanak intqaal karne se mein ne andaza lagaya ke aap hi hazrat moose salam hain. jab meri maa khana khilati to mujhe is terhan dua deti:
Ya Allah pak mere betay ko jannat mein hazrat moose salam ka saathi banana. hazrat moose salam ne farmaya : mubarak ho ke Allah pak ne tumhe mera jannat ka saathi banaya hai .
Ahadees mubarikah mein bhi walidain ki qader o ahmiyat bayan ki gayi hai : chunancha App S.A.W.S ka arman hai : jis shakhs se uskay walidain raazi hon Allah pak is se raazi hai aur jis se is ke walidain naraaz hon is se Allah Pak bhi naraaz hai. ( tirmizi )
Hadees mubarikah mein to maa baap ko jannat dozakh se tabeer kya gaya Allah ke nabi S.A.W.S se 1 shakhs ne poocha : ya RasulLullah maa baap ka aulaad par kya haq hai? Allah Aap S.A.W.S ne farmaya: maa baap teri jannat aur dozakh hain. (Ibn maja).
Aik aur maqam par Irshad farmaya : sab gunaaho ki saza qayamat mein miley gi lekin maa baap ke nafarman ko Allah pak duniya mein hi saza day deta hai. (shab alayman)
Hadees pak ka mazmoon hai : jo bacha apne maa baap ko mohabbat ki nigah se dekhe Allah pak usay maqbool hajj ka sawab ataa farmaiyega Allah akbar! zara sochye ke mohabbat se dekhnay ka yeh ajar hai to khidmat karne ka aalam kya hoga! aik sahabi rasool ne arz ki : huzoor S.A.W.S agar koi din mein so baar dekhe? aaqa S.A.W.S ne farmatay hain : koi so baar bhi dekhe to usay Allah pak maqbool hajj ka sawab ataa farmaiye ga. (shab alayman, hadees 7859, j 6, s 186).
Walidain Ki Shaan:
Allah pak ne quran pak ke kayi maqamat mein walidain ki ahmiyat o martabay ko ujagar kiya hai. Allah pak quran kareem mein irshad farmata hai :' ' aur maa baap ko uff tak nah kaho aur nah hi inhen jhirdko aur un se narmi se baat karo !' ' ( pay ۱۵, bani Israel , آیت۲۳ ( Allah akbar! hamein to walidain ko uff tak kehnay se mana kya ja raha hai jabkay aaj kal ki nadaan aulaad ke nazdeek walidain ko old house mein chore kar aana koi buraiee hi nahi.Ahadees mubarikah mein bhi walidain ki qader o ahmiyat bayan ki gayi hai : chunancha App S.A.W.S ka arman hai : jis shakhs se uskay walidain raazi hon Allah pak is se raazi hai aur jis se is ke walidain naraaz hon is se Allah Pak bhi naraaz hai. ( tirmizi )
Hadees mubarikah mein to maa baap ko jannat dozakh se tabeer kya gaya Allah ke nabi S.A.W.S se 1 shakhs ne poocha : ya RasulLullah maa baap ka aulaad par kya haq hai? Allah Aap S.A.W.S ne farmaya: maa baap teri jannat aur dozakh hain. (Ibn maja).
Aik aur maqam par Irshad farmaya : sab gunaaho ki saza qayamat mein miley gi lekin maa baap ke nafarman ko Allah pak duniya mein hi saza day deta hai. (shab alayman)
Hadees pak ka mazmoon hai : jo bacha apne maa baap ko mohabbat ki nigah se dekhe Allah pak usay maqbool hajj ka sawab ataa farmaiyega Allah akbar! zara sochye ke mohabbat se dekhnay ka yeh ajar hai to khidmat karne ka aalam kya hoga! aik sahabi rasool ne arz ki : huzoor S.A.W.S agar koi din mein so baar dekhe? aaqa S.A.W.S ne farmatay hain : koi so baar bhi dekhe to usay Allah pak maqbool hajj ka sawab ataa farmaiye ga. (shab alayman, hadees 7859, j 6, s 186).
Maa Ki Shaan:
1 shakhs S.A.W.S ki bargaah mein haazir ho kar arz guzaar sun-hwa : S.A.W.S! mere husn ikhlaq ka ziyada haq daar kon hai?irshad farmaya : tumhari maa' is ne dobarah arz ki : is ke baad kon? irshad farmaya :' ' tumhari maa' ' teesri baar arz ki : is ke baad kon? to aap S.A.W.S ne is martaba bhi yahi irshad farmaya :' ' tumhari maa' ' is ne phir arz ki : is ke baad kon? to aap S.A.W.S ne irshad farmaya :' ' tera baap.
phir qareebi ka ziyada haq hai phir jo is ke baad qareebi ho. ( sahih bukhari )
Aik sahabi Razi allah عنْہ ne nabi kareem S.A.W.S ki bargaah mein arz ki : aik rastay mein aisay garam pathar thay ke agar gosht ka tukda unn par dala jata to kabaab hojata! mein apni maa ko gardan par sawaar karkay chay mil tak le gaya hon, kya mein maa ke haqooq se farigh hogaya hon?
S.A.W.S ne farmaya : tairay peda honay mein dard ke jis qader jhatkay is ne uthaye hain shayad yeh un mein se aik jhatkay ka badla hosakay.)
Be shak tamam naik aamaal se barh kar naik amal yeh hai ke beta –apne baap ke doston se acha sulooq kere.
Baap Ki Shaan:
Aap S.A.W.S irshad farmatay hain : Allah pak ki Raza waalid ki Raza mein hai aur Allah pak ki narazi waalid ki narazi mein hai.Be shak tamam naik aamaal se barh kar naik amal yeh hai ke beta –apne baap ke doston se acha sulooq kere.
Bank Se Retired To Ghar Se Retired:
Aik Umar Raseedah buzurag paanch beton aur do baityon ke waalid hain aur Karachi ke mashhoor ilaqay mein waqay old house mein rehtay hain. Sahaafat mein masters kar rakha hai aur bank Afsar ki hesiyat se retired hue aur ghar chore kar old house aagaye, kehte hain pehlay mere bachay mujh se bohat dartay thay.Ab mein boorha hogaya hon is liye ab woh mujh se nahi dartay. aik betay ko mein ne hi bank mein lagaya tha aur ab woh manager ban gaya hai. retirement par jo raqam mili is se teen manzila makaan banaya hai jis mein sab rehtay hain .
Pyare dostoo! maa baap is liye nahi ke inhen ghar se nikala jaye balkay inhen toh sar aankhon par bithana chahiye. Yeh kamaal hastiyan bohat dukhi hon phir bhi izhaar nahi karte balkay baaz maa baap to bachon ke samnay bolnay se dartay hain ke ziyada bola to aulaad ghar se nah nikaal day.
Pyare dostoo! maa baap is liye nahi ke inhen ghar se nikala jaye balkay inhen toh sar aankhon par bithana chahiye. Yeh kamaal hastiyan bohat dukhi hon phir bhi izhaar nahi karte balkay baaz maa baap to bachon ke samnay bolnay se dartay hain ke ziyada bola to aulaad ghar se nah nikaal day.
Herat hai aisi aulaad par jis ke maa baap un se baat karne mein dartay hon. taajjub hai is beti pr jis se maa baat karne mein hich kichaye ke beti mujh par chikhe gi! aap ghhor to karen yeh kitna bara gunah hai, kitni barri nafarmani hai. aulaad ka aik haq yeh bhi hai ke aulaad ka andaaz walidain ke samnay aisa ho jaisa ghulam ka andaaz apne aaqa ke samnay hota hai.
Magar kya aaj aisa nahi ke baaz walidain apni aulaad ke samnay ghulam banay nazar atay hain ke beta mera yeh kaam kardo! beta mujhe thoray se paisay day do aur beta jhaad raha hota hai ke yeh mere paisay hain! aap pareshan nah kya Karen.
Abbu aap ko samajh hi nahi aati, ammi aap purani baatein nah kya karen, ab zamana bohat badal gaya hai. kya yeh andaaz hota hai walidain se baat karne ka? un ko aulaad yeh kehti hai ke samajh nahi aati, un ko to tab bhi samajh aati thi jab aulaad ko bolna nahi aata tha bacha rota tha to maa ko pata chal jata tha ke pait mein dard ho raha hai ya bhook lag rahi hai.
Maa baap ka nam albdl ho hi nahi sakta que nk_h maa baap apni aulaad ki khatir zindagi ke shab o roz qurbaan kardete hain. baap subah se raat tak sirf is liye mehnat karta hai ke meri aulaad acha kha sake, acha pehan sakay, acha parh sakay, muashray mein izzat o maqam haasil kar sakay jabkay maa no mah –apne pait mein rakh kar, paidaiesh ke waqt sakht takleef bardasht karkay, apna khon-e jigar plakr, apni raat ki neendain qurbaan karkay apni aulaad ki tar beeet karti hai .
Maa baap ke sath naarwa sulooq karne walay ko duniya mein kis terhan saza millti hai, aik Ibrat angaiz hekiyaat mulahiza karen : chunancha aik sang dil beta –apne boorhay baap se tang aa kar jungle mein chorney par amaada hogaya. jab jungle mein –apne baap ko le kar pouncha to baap ne kaha : beta sardi ka mausam hai, mujhe kam az kam aik kambal to day jao! is waqt boorhay shakhs ka pota bhi wahan mojood tha. betay ne –apne betay se kaha : ghar jao aur aik kambal le kar aao.
Beta ghar aaya, kambal phaar kar aadha kya aur jungle ki taraf rawana hogaya, jungle pahunchte hi jab aadha kambal baap ke hawalay kya to baap herat zada hokar bola : aadha kambal kahan gaya? betay ne jawab diya ke woh aadha kambal to mein aap ke liye chore aaya hon jab aap boorhay ho jaien ge to mein bhi aap ko jungle mein chore jaoon ga aur baqi mandah aadha kambal aap ko lakar day dun ga .
Allah pak hamein walidain ki qader ataa farmaiye aur un ki khidmat karne ki tofeq ataa farmaiye. Ameeen.
Abbu aap ko samajh hi nahi aati, ammi aap purani baatein nah kya karen, ab zamana bohat badal gaya hai. kya yeh andaaz hota hai walidain se baat karne ka? un ko aulaad yeh kehti hai ke samajh nahi aati, un ko to tab bhi samajh aati thi jab aulaad ko bolna nahi aata tha bacha rota tha to maa ko pata chal jata tha ke pait mein dard ho raha hai ya bhook lag rahi hai.
Maa baap ka nam albdl ho hi nahi sakta que nk_h maa baap apni aulaad ki khatir zindagi ke shab o roz qurbaan kardete hain. baap subah se raat tak sirf is liye mehnat karta hai ke meri aulaad acha kha sake, acha pehan sakay, acha parh sakay, muashray mein izzat o maqam haasil kar sakay jabkay maa no mah –apne pait mein rakh kar, paidaiesh ke waqt sakht takleef bardasht karkay, apna khon-e jigar plakr, apni raat ki neendain qurbaan karkay apni aulaad ki tar beeet karti hai .
Maa baap ke sath naarwa sulooq karne walay ko duniya mein kis terhan saza millti hai, aik Ibrat angaiz hekiyaat mulahiza karen : chunancha aik sang dil beta –apne boorhay baap se tang aa kar jungle mein chorney par amaada hogaya. jab jungle mein –apne baap ko le kar pouncha to baap ne kaha : beta sardi ka mausam hai, mujhe kam az kam aik kambal to day jao! is waqt boorhay shakhs ka pota bhi wahan mojood tha. betay ne –apne betay se kaha : ghar jao aur aik kambal le kar aao.
Beta ghar aaya, kambal phaar kar aadha kya aur jungle ki taraf rawana hogaya, jungle pahunchte hi jab aadha kambal baap ke hawalay kya to baap herat zada hokar bola : aadha kambal kahan gaya? betay ne jawab diya ke woh aadha kambal to mein aap ke liye chore aaya hon jab aap boorhay ho jaien ge to mein bhi aap ko jungle mein chore jaoon ga aur baqi mandah aadha kambal aap ko lakar day dun ga .
Allah pak hamein walidain ki qader ataa farmaiye aur un ki khidmat karne ki tofeq ataa farmaiye. Ameeen.
