Engagement In Islam

Engagement Kya Hai?

Engagement isliye ki Jaati Hai taki Rishta fix ho sake isliye ki na ladki ke liye koi rishta aaye or na ladke ke liye or Agar Rishta Aaye to ham ye keh de ke bhai hamara ladka engaged hai ya hamari ladki engaged hai.

Engagement In Islam

Pr jis tarike se aaj engagement ho rahi hai ladki wale or ladke wale Ke Darmiyan jismein Ladka aur Ladki Ek dusre ko Hath Mein hath lekar ring pehnate Hai Jo ki haram hai Gair Mehram hai donon Ek dusre ke liye yad Rahe ring pahna Dene se ye engagement kar Lene se ladka ladki mehram Nahin ban jaate Jaise baki ladke ladki ke liye or baki ladkiyan ladke ke liye Gair Mehram hai usi tarah jisse uski engagement hui hai wo bhi dono ek dusre ke liye gair mehram hai.

Engagement hone ke baad ladka ladki Ek dusre ko halal apna mehram samajhne lagti hai. ghanton phone per baat karna Ek dusre ko dekhna touch karna sath mein ghumna or ye sab maa baap dekh Dekh Rahe Hote Hai. pr krne dete unko ye haram kaam unke samne Karte Hain pr wo kuch nahi.. bacche phone pr baat karte ammi puchi beta kon hai beti bolti hai aapke damad hai beta kon hai kisse baat kr rahe ho ammi aapki bahu hai. hayyyy ammi muskurayi... are ammi muskurao nahi baccho ko roko ese kaam se unko batao beta abhi wo na teri mehram hai na meri bahu... beti ko samjhoo beti na wo tera mehram hai na mera damad.

Are ghar walo ammi abbu baccho ko samajhna chhod kr unki baato pr khush hote hamari beti hamare damad se or hamara beta bahu se baat kr raha hai. beta, beti puri raat jagker baat bhi kare tab bhi maa baap ko khabar nahi kuch nahi bolte or koi bolta bhi hai to yahi maa baap unki baat pr parda dalte ki kisi gair se to nhai kr rahe uske mangetar se baat kr rahe koi haram kaam to nahi kr rahe.... ye Alfaaz aapke baccho ko badhawa dete hai balki aap unko batao ke abhi bhi dono gair hi ho ek ek ladka, ladki aapas me halal or mehram Nikaah baad hi hote hai... Allah ke waste khud bhi samjho or apni Aulad ko bhi samjhao.

Logo Ki Nazar Me Engagement Ke Fayde.

Log bolte hai. bohot fayde hai engagement ka ladka ladki ek dusre ko samjh jate hai, dono ke dil mil jate hai dono ke dil me ek dusre ki mohabbat paida ho jati hai, dono ki pasand na-pasand zahir ho jati hai, shadi ke baad ajanabi jesa nahi lagta.... are Allah ke bando ye sab cheeze to shadi ke baad bhi pata chal jayegi... or mohabbat ki baat krte ho to dilon me mohabbat dalna Allah ka naam hai tumhara nhi....balki isse tum khudko pareshani me daal dete ho....bohot se rishte engagement ki wajah se bhi tut jate dono apne gharon ki baate ek dusre se krte fir koi baat pata chalti jiski wajah se rishta tut gaya... lo ho gaya nuksan karo or baate jo cheeze usko shadi ke baad khud hi pata chal jati tumne pehle hi viral kr di..

Allah jab kisi ke dil Me mohabbat dalta hai to fir samne wala khud aapse mohabbat karega aap ko apni tarah se koshish karne ki bhi jarurat Nahin. kya aapne kahi ese rishte nahi dekhe jisme ladki kitni dur ki or ladka kitne dur ka hota hai, fir bhi guzar rahi na unki zindagi deendari Or sukoon ke sath is engegment ki wajah se na jane kitne haram kaam hote hai ladka ladki sochte hai ab to engagement bhi ho gayi ab to baat bhi kr sakte hai fir sochenge baat kr rahe to mil bhi lete hai.... bas yahi se be hayai besharmi shuru Shaitan na jane kitne gunaah krwata hai inse or ye krte chahe jate hai jo cheeze shadi ke baad halal hai or Jaiz hai ye sab haram tarike se pehle hi kr lete hai fir shadishuda zindagi me masle shuru Engagement or Nikaah ke bich jitni distance hogi besharmi, Behayai, barbadi utni hi tezi se failegi.

Allah ke waste Engegment ke chakkar me na raha kro. yaad rahe ese behayai or haram rishtonme barqat nahi hoti. jesa hame deen-e-islam ne ijazat di hai wese kro or islaam me to Engegment ka koi zikr hai hi nahi agar aapko ladki ya ladka pasand hai to Nikaah ke liye paigam bhejo paigam qubool ho jaye to Sunnat tarike se Nikaah do. Isme dono pariwar ki bhi razi Khushi ho Allah ki bhi.